Disgusting it may be, but it was very possible. Prince Carol of Romania's tutor was homosexual and had a crush on him, and there may well have been physical incidents which played a part in Carol's development.
Also it is speculated that one of Prince Eddy's teachers was homosexual and developed an obssession for him.
Gibbes may not have been an overt, practicing homosexual but he certainly was a closet one.
I think that when we are speaking of History issues we must be very careful about our statesments. Of course, we know that Carol of Romania's tutor WAS homosexual and had a crush on him...But we cannot affirm that "may well have been physical incidents" between the young Crownprince and him, as well as we can't said "Gibbes may not having been an overy, practicing homosexual but.." This is dangerous. Not being but "maybe he was" always makes people think that most possibily he was...and we have NO PROOF of it, excepting the oversentimental things he wrote about the Tsarevich, and this way of writing was common back then.
It is like the topic about a possible rapping experienced by the Grand Duchess at the "Rus". We can't said they were raped; we can't said they weren't. So we must only state what we know about the events and that's all. If some new proof comes to the surface, we must publish it and discuss it, but not allow to ourselves this not scholar at all "maybe if..." that could confound people.
Oh, and I share all you said in your post, Nadia_Arapov.
RealAnastasia.