Suspended Users

A "new" user, anastasiaclaimant WAS CalebGmoney/Bigbee et al. Once again, someone banned for behavior sneaks back in without permission. Understand this VERY public pronouncment of a fundemental Forum rule:
If you sneak back in while suspended without prior permission from me, you are PERMANENTLY and forever banned from this Forum. This isn't unreasonable or unclear.
 
This is the reason Rsskiya was permanently banned, not for conduct in the forum, but rather sneaking in four more times under fake names. Same thing for Olga/DarthOlga...who snuck in three times.
 
This is the Fourth time for CalebGmoney. READ THIS CLEARLY: BECAUSE YOU SHOW TOTAL DISRESPECT FOR ME AND THIS FORUM BY SNEAKING IN UNDER FAKE NAMES AFTER BEING SUSPENEDED AND NOW BANNED YOU ARE NEVER WELCOME HERE AGAIN. EVER. GOODBYE. Anything you ever post in this Forum from here on out will be deleted immediately and without warning.  

Anyone suspended who hopes to sneak back in, be advised.

Update,
Just a week after THIS last post, CalebGMoney/annaanderson/bigbee/anastasiaclaimant came in YET again, using the name J Christ Anderson. Add yet another alias. One can only wonder how genuinely deranged or obssessed someone can be to sneak in where they have been told they are not welcome and are no longer to come in. If this were our real house, we could have them arrested for trespass. Just be advised that any banned or suspended user who sneaks in WILL have their posts removed and any posts which quote them will be removed as well.

We will not nor can not tolerate disruptive and dishonest users sneaking into our forum

FA

[Rskkiya]

I have decided that it actually is constructive to demonstrate that this has been a problem, and have decided to "out" the alias names of several other suspended users, as I have been accused of unfairly banning them.

Rskkiya aka: finelly, elfwine, catt.sydney, leushino, praskovia, vera figner, barishchina

Darth Olga: oscarwilde, Oscar Wilde, comrade, Olga Rodionovna

CalebG.Money: bigbi, annaanderson, Doggy, cornmuffin, anastasiaclaimant, J Christ Anderson

Dear FA,

From the aliases of rskkiya, I had my fill of offensive remarks both online as well as offline.
No member, new or old, nor you FA, nor moderators needs to be disrespected, nor made a fool of.
I think it is up to us as well as members to stand firmly by every reason we need to protect this AP website, and stop trespassers at all cost.

Thank you both FA and moderators for keeping our website safe from these obsessed personalities.
Glad as well you shared with us all of their names, so we may be forwarned in the future.

Tatiana+

I don't think they are all that obsessed with anything,just hacking and making a nuisance of themselves,and they got what they hoped for,a screaming FA.That was all the fun they needed/wanted.

Why not just delete their post without going public the way you do,they just revel in all the attention,and it isn't really chic.

I find this information VERY interesting. I, too, have been duped by a couple of those usernames. I had felt some sympathy toward them for being banned, and all along they were being deceitful. How underhanded.

This just proves we as users don't know the whole story behind forum-dramas. I, for one, will be less quick to judge and/or take sides in future.

Thanks so much for posting the additional names of people who sneak in again and again!!! I am so happy to know that Leushino and Elfwine were the same!!  Reading their posts, it seemed they were, and that person used other names as well.  I was many times insulted by Leushino/ Elfwine/ rskkiya, under different names. I pretty much thought about quiting the Alexandra thread because of '' Leushino'', at one time. Another time, '' Elfwine'' was far from nice to me. The others didn't bother me as much, but as far as I am concerned the FA does an excellant job, and makes this site a great place. I am very very thankful to the FA and everybody. Once again, it is proved that this is the best forum ever. Anytime anybody is suspended or banned, I never doubt that the FA was right, and I never feel sorry for these people. They brought on themselves through their own actions.

This just proves we as users don't know the whole story behind forum-dramas. I, for one, will be less quick to judge and/or take sides in future.

This was the exact reason why I made my decision to expose the aliases.

I am forced to wonder why these people are so overly obsessed with posting here...in some cases, yes, they are spammers who wish only to embarass or otherwise injure those who courteously and correctly utilise the forums; but other times?  

I do remember, for one, "Finelly", who was in spite of being somewhat informative a bit rude at times.  One would think that, if a suspended/banned member who was sneaking back in would not draw so much attention to his or herself through continued abusive language or pointlessly flooding every single thread with things such as "Anna Anderson was Anastasia Nikolaevna" (as the recent "J Christ Anderson" felt inclined to do).

I must appreciate the actions the Forum Admins have here taken - although I was nearly suspended from another website's forum, I respected their decision - and today I am one of the admins on that same site.  In many houses, trespassing once gets you arrested - sneaking back in the night gets you shot or stabbed.  Good comes to those who respect and obey the administrators, especially such good ones as we've here; and only bad comes swiftly to all others.

Serious (for once),

Ivan S. Komarov

Wow--I never would've guessed 'finelly' 'elfwine' and 'leushino' were all rskkiya.    I had some limited contact with 'each' and feel a little silly talking to the same person without knowing it.  :-/

I know, grandduchessella! I never thought that rskkiya would be leushino! I thought that leushino was a good member for this Forum!

Wow. Just..wow. It's a little weird to know that rskiyya and Finelly were the same person...

Thank you for this list. And thank you for keeping the forum spam and crap free.

I also am surprised to see that finelly and rskkiya were one and the same.  She seems to have really gotten around.  I began to suspect last Fall that rskkiya, cat.sydney and elfwine were the same.

When I read Rob's first posting on this topic I thought he was being too harsh - then I saw the aliases being used by these three forum members and I was SHOCKED - I too have corresponded with them and had no idea that some of these different aliases were the same people.  I think sometimes you can pick up on certain words and phrases and recognise diffferent names might likely be the same people, but I know I'm not one with that natural talent.

We all should be very careful of people/personalities we meet on the web so that we don't become victims of sociopaths who use the web for their own benefit at the expense of others.  According to Wikipedia an antisocial personality disorder is indicated by three or more of the following (an abbreviated list):

• failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest
• deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure
• reckless disregard for safety of self or others
• consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain steady work or honor financial obligations
• lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another

I am not suggesting that any of these former members of the Forum are sociopaths - I bring this up so that we can all be careful of people who use phony names on the web. If you suspect the 'person' you are chatting with on the web is a phony ask them for an address or telephone number so you can verify who they are.  If they decline to give it to you one can assume they have something to hide.

Bob

[Glibness and Superficial Charm]

Here's something I found on the web that says more about the sociopath:

Profile of the Sociopath (fromhttp://www.hss.caltech.edu/~mcafee/Bin/sb.html

This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

• Glibness and Superficial Charm
  
  
• Manipulative and Conning
  They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
  
  
• Grandiose Sense of Self
  Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
  
  
• Pathological Lying
  Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
  
  
• Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
  A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
  
  
• Shallow Emotions
  When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
  
  
• Incapacity for Love
  
  
• Need for Stimulation
  Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
  
  
• Callousness/Lack of Empathy
  Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
  
  
• Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
  Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
  
  
• Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
  Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
  
  
• Irresponsibility/Unreliability
  Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
  
  
• Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
  Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
  
  
• Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
  Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
  
  
• Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
  Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

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You said to ask them for their address or phone number and if they refuse to give it they are not who they say they are, but I think it's important to say that if you're a kid, as many of us here are, you should never give out your address or other personal info to someone you meet online. I'm not saying that people on this forum have bad intentions or anything, but it's better safe than sorry.