Does the concept of "inbreeding"--with particular regards to the European royal houses--offend anyone else on this website? Cousins marrying cousins was not such a strange thing 100 years ago and more; selection of a mate was much more limited, whether you lived in a village hamlet or belonged to a royal family.
One of the problems I face in explaining my interest in Queen Victoria, Empress Alexandra, etc., is that the general response is, "Oh yeah--they were really inbred!" With the implication being that the majority of European royals were walking around with three eyeballs each and drool running down their faces.
I happen to have seen the negative results of an actual case of "inbreeding," and I can tell you that it does not resemble anything we've seen in the royal houses of Europe! Naturally, if one person was the carrier of a gene, it would be likely to passed on to that person's children . . . and cousins marrying cousins would reinforce the situation. But if you study the various descendants of Queen Victoria, you will see there was a wide variety of intelligence, looks, temperment, ambition
and health situations among her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren . . . as in any family.
I hope I treat folks with hemophilia the same way I treat folks with any other type of condition, be it cancer, Alzheimer's disease, AIDS, diabetes, Downs Syndrome, loss of sight or hearing, or whatever--with consideration (as I would treat
anyone) and the knowledge that is just one aspect of that person's life, and it doesn't mean the rest of us are licensed to be judgmental or patronizing, or that we need to run screaming in the other direction.