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« on: September 14, 2005, 11:02:05 AM »
Olga was very particular about who she would eventually marry given the example of her parents. She probably wanted someone who was suitable for her status, but someone she loved too.She also, famously, said that she wanted to marry a Russian, not foreign royalty. Of course that was in 1914, when she did not want to marry Prince Carol of Romania, a foreign royal. Time and chance might have changed things. His not being Russian was one of the reasons she refused Carol, but by no means the only. It seems generally true that she wanted to stay in Russia, close to her family. She would proably have been married by 1918, had it not been for World War I, and the Revolution. At 22, she was about the right age for marriage by the standards of royalty of the day. She was by no means an old maid or spinster, by the standards of now or then. Whether she married or not would have been interesting. She proably would have wed someone in the Romanov family, if she wanted to stay in Russia, or found a husband who was foreign royalty who was willing to live in Russia. There is an old distinction between Old Maid and Spinster. Spinsters are umarried women with money and means of their own, whereas old maids were women who didn't have any money or status and were dependent upon relatives, etc. Olga, thus, would have been a spinster, not an old maid. (later in her life, of course).