didn't nicky have a tendancy to be a bit of a neat freak and alix was a clutter bug? i wonder if that DOES reflect personality? i can't remember where i read that, so maybe i'm wrong, but it may well have been on here somewhere, about there being a clash in personalities (yet again) because she tended to be quite messy and he like to keep things neat?

i completley agree that it was HER room so, y'know, its easy to analyse everything after and wonder what made her keep blue tissues instead of pink, i'm sure anyone could do that for any bedroom and make a million wrong assumptions.
if you go to many british statley homes they are like major clutter-fests, sandringham is brimming with clutter and as for other estate homes, its literally ridiculous, i went to one in norfolk, not far from sandringham and there was at least a 3 foot pile of junk on top of a rocking horse, and i can only imagine that in victorian times it would have been 100 times worse, even my grandparents house seems to be really cluttered compared to the younger generation. It was just a massive piece of english culture i find. i was actually talking to my grandad about this (born in 1922 in ukraine) and he said that his parents and grandparents house weren't overly crowded, but when he came to england he was like omg, what is all this stuff?
also i think its awful to attack alexandra for how she chose to decorate or fill her private rooms. I have no objection to people having a go at her political decisions etc because there is, given, a lot to criticise, but i think the line has to be drawn at attacking someones taste, she had no idea people would be analysing how many trinket boxes she had 100 years later, i'm sure if we analysed any of our own rooms they wouldn't be to everyones taste and that wouldn't make us bad people.
i think what we need to remember is that we are analysing alix based on what we already know about her as a person, and kind of forcing it to make sense in relation to her way of decorating etc, it might well turn out differently if we didn't know who she was and were just told to analyse the room.
and as far as living there......no...big houses scare me