Yes, many, many people feel the same way. I used to as well, but no longer do. It was like I felt the need to protect Diana (kinda funny strange, huh?), but as time passed and I grew older I learned how complicated relationships can be.
My feelings for Camilla turned around as soon as Prince Charles began inviting her to his evening functions in the late 90s early 2000s. Diana had died by this time. It was still so hard to believe that she was gone. Camilla was so brave, my goodness. With all the press reviling her and the bad sentiments people had towards her. Then, I saw it. That unmistakable chemistry between two people that was captured in short snippets of television coverage. That never existed (from my perspective) between he and Diana.
I love seeing pictures of she and Charles together, and if we're lucky, we get to see their lightheartedness via short television highlights during an engagement of some sort. I'm really looking forward to their trip up north in the summer. They usually have a blast at the Highland Scottish games competition...forgive me, but I forget the actual name of the event. No disrespect to our Scottish friends.
It's funny, I don't personally know Camilla, but if I did, I think I'd hit it off with her immensely.