i visited my boyfriend's grandmother yesterday. she was around 15 when queen maria died and - since she's quite old - she has a fuzzy memory of events. but she did remember that all the women dressed in violet in her honor and that she was touched by that.
she told me that there was a rumor going around at the time in her circles - it said that carol was fighting with nicolae and tried to shoot him. queen maria interfered and got shot instead - which led to her death. no historical basis whatsoever but i think it speaks volumes of carol and the reputation he had.
she also said that she always thought nicolae was a very nice man and that he should've been king instead of carol.
it was a very interesting conversation - rarely do i get the chance to speak with people who were actually alive when all that happened...
