Harvey, during my childhood and early youth, and even five years ago, I heard all sorts of stories about the Emperor and the Empress, from people who lived in the Pale during their early years, until their mid-20s when they left what had become the Soviet Union. Some of the stories I heard went from gruesome to unbelievable, and coming from people who lived in "shtetls" in Poland and the Ukraine, I don't think they have any credibility.
I never heard my grandparents refer to the Emperor and the Empress in a demeaning way; my grandparents didn't like them at all, though, but they never mentioned them in a disrespectful way.
Harvey, I'm trying to do some research on the conditions prevalent at the time, because my children must know their family history. The material I needed is quoted above, and I'd like to tell you in a very respectful manner, to put quotations and cite your bibliography (if you have it). That way you will contribute to what others like me are trying to do here.
I can also print all the stories I heard as a youth, none which is substantiated and as such, will remain in the realm of gossip.
I think that the revolution went bad for everyone, and we must respect those who died there. The damage is done.
We Jews have managed to mend our fences, up to a point, with Germany, and I find no reason of why we shouldn't mend them with Russia too.
Nicholas II tried to do his job to the best of his abilities. He was brought up in a way of life and under a set of circumstances that were useless when he had to cope with a new world. I think that neither he nor his advisors were prepared to cope with a parliament, more freedom of expression, etc., and in doing what they were trained to do, earned the hate and distrust of some, paying with their lives in the process.
If the stories that are documented above are true, and there's reason to believe they are, it behooves us to revise the anti-Semitism of the Emperor, and to differentiate facts from opinions.
The incident told above about the turpentine manufacturer speaks for itself a lot, not to mention the others. Had the Tsar been an anti-Semite, believe me, that Jew wouldn't have gotten 25 rubles which were a fortune at the time, when I'm told, people had to save their kopecks to buy a loaf of bread for Sabbath.