Many people think of Nicholas as weak and shallow as it seems to sum up their image of him in their minds.
At the same time it is agreed he was a good man, he loved his family, was deeply religious, and a proud Russian. But in a King, President, or Tsar the main thing is not their "niceness" or "love of family"but their deeds, and Nicholas 11 was a bad Tsar, unfortuantly for him from start to finish of his reign.
Totally unsuited to being an absolute Autocrat, he would have been better if he had his cousin George's job as a constitutional Monarch.
That is why his story is so sad if we compare the two cousins. Obviuosly Poor Nicholas was on the "shakier throne".
I think blame can be laid at Nicholas father's feet, as his father failed to teach and guide him properly from a young age, so that when he became Tsar he was overwhelmed, miserable, and frightened, admitting he knew nothing! That was scary for him and his family but what about the millions of Russians??
I think Alexei's hemophilia played a huge part in Russia and Nicholas's problems, it presented him with even more worries and dilemmas.
As well, autocracy could not have survived in the 20th century without major changes, and Nicholas was only half interested in finding solutions.
I think I have said it elsewhere, but Nicholas was not suited by personality, temperment or intellect to be an absolute autocrat in the 20th century, in the largest country in the world. It was just all wrong for him, and World War 1 was something so bad he could never recover.
In the end it didnt matter that he was a good family man, or a devoutly religious man, as in the end he was a bad Tsar, unsuitable for his post. If he had been leader of a democratic country, he would have been voted out! He was only there through birthright, and sometimes that produces the worst leaders!