With regard to Grand Duchess Maria's getting "too friendly" with the guards, how much did the rest of he family turn away from her for this? .... Do you think there was a lot of anger towards her from Alexandra and Olga or merely distrust?
Of course at this distance of time, and with no account of the Skorokhodov event in either N or A's diaries (as unlikely as I think it would have been for them to have written for posterity about a daughter's disgrace), it's difficult to assess just how much approbation came down on Maria's head from the rest of her family.
The testimony that we have comes from Yurovsky and one or two other guards who noticed a difference in behavior towards Maria -- which tells me that the behavior was unusual enough to attract attention in the first place. In Yurovsky's case, he was there from day one to plan the execution of the family, so there must have been something rather extraordinary in their behavior to make him notice. Unfortunately, he didn't detail his observations.
As I recall, Alexandra had had occasion to reprimand Maria for her friendly attitude towards the Ipatiev House guards during the first couple of days of their internment there. And Maria's own letter to her sisters in Tobolsk about the former Imperial beater, Ukraintsev, shows what a lot of information she had got from him in just a few days of chatting! She was undoubtedly a "people person," and at the point of their entry into the Ipatiev House, there was no indication at all that they were entering their final prison, and so no reason for Maria to change the habits of a lifetime.
It is important to remember that Nicholas and Alexandra had never encouraged their girls to be stand-offish with their guards and retainers. They maintained friendly relations with everyone around them, and, living somewhat isolated lives, I have no doubt that other people gave these young women their window on the world. Nicholas and Alexandra did not even discourage small flirtations and crushes on this or that officer or soldier through the GD's teenage years -- they even made family jokes about them.
And much more recently to their incarceration in the Ipatiev House, the Imperial couple attempted to use their third daughter's friendly charm to their advantage on the train with Yakovlev, by sending her alone to the guards' carriage to enquire of the men what their destination might be. So even then, N and A must have had no inkling of danger. But perhaps on their arrival under what was so obviously now a prison regime, Alexandra thought that such friendly relations were not quite appropriate, and asked Maria to be a litle more circumspect.
After the Skorokhodov huha, it's my belief that Alexandra was upset with Maria in the usual way that a mother gets over a daughter's attraction or friendship with an inappropriate man. Especially as she'd already been warned off. I know that look, having had it from my own mother
, and I don't think it was anything more serious than that.
Olga, on the other hand, as everyone always says, was more in tune with the under-currents in that house, and I think she saw the real danger for the family that Maria's escapade stirred up. They knew that the White forces were approaching the city and that it was only a matter of days before Ekaterinburg fell -- Olga might have realized that their ultimate safety lay in being low-key and not attracting any untoward Soviet attention. She must have noticed the difference in the revolutionary dedication of their lax and friendly guards and soft-hearted curmudgeonly Avdeyev and that of the committed and driven members of the Ural Regional Soviet. It just must have been THE most monumental screw-up for the Ural Regional Soviet observers to have been in the house when Maria was caught with Skorokhodov.
So I think Olga was pretty seriously hacked off with Maria -- enough so to keep away from her younger sisters, as several guards observed.
However, time passes, and I think that family anger and disapproval also did, to some extent, because on the day before the murders, the cleaning women moved furniture in the bedroom with the four girls and all seemed relaxed and comfortable with each other.