the way I see it, Alexandros was saying that just because his parents were so against his relationship with Aspasia and he wanted to point out that even if his family were all against them, greek people would be thrilled to have a greek girl in the royal family at last, and they would love her for being one of them, and she would not behave anything like his mother. And he was right. But he talked of how greek people thought his mother was, not of what he thought of her! And I read about this in many books in greek, but since I'm not at home right now, I'll come back to you in a day or two and will give you the exact words.