I agree with Sunny. I am not shy about publishing but I wonder just how much of a writer's own self is exposed in a work of fiction? That is what bothered me when we were actively looking for a publisher in the 1980s.
I have asked some of the authors who post here about this and I have gotten various answers.
What I am looking for now is an editing program that will allow me to scan in the manuscript and then edit and correct for content. I have asked at a local computer tech college about the availability of this kind of software, but I am told it is probably not the word program that would be a problem but the scanner itself that would make the work hard. Most of us own what are called "low end" scanners that see the word in a manuscript as blocks of letters and not words. That is why the scanned in product often makes no sense.
I did buy Dragon Naturally Speaking which is supposed to let one read the manuscript into the computer's editing program, but for some reason I keep putting off trying it. My son is an ITech and I would think that I would be braver and try all of this technology since he is around to help me and correct my software usage mistakes, but ...
Our manuscript is 425 pages and it was done on a typewriter with carbon paper for copies and there is no way I would ever want to have to retype the whole thing in order to get it into a word processing program to do the editing. I think it would take far too much time but as a last resort, I just might have to do it that way.
As to how long it takes some authors to get published, I remember the book entitled And The Ladies Of The Club. It was the only book the author ever wrote and she was in her 80s when she finally got it published. She should be a role model for the rest of us.