Unless by "romanticism" you are referring to our affection and admiration for them.
I meant romantic more in the sense of medieval romance literature, where heroes are faced with tasks or challenges and rise to meet them in unusual or dramatic ways. A henpecked husband with a semi-hysteric wife who missed a chance to get his family away from danger in the first days of revolution and then went peaceably with them to their deaths does not suggest romance in that sense to me. I do agree, though, that Nicholas' story was dramatic.
I'd much rather have a sheltered OTMA than some decadent and narcissistic St. Petersburg Court tools.
Not me. Too boring. You mentioned the Vladimirovichii. Read the stories of the last generations of that family, where you will find highly interesting people who ranged from a true rake to an accomplished poet and a couple of men imbued with extraordinary senses of public service.
I am not particularly interested in decadent and narcissistic St. Petersburg Court "tools" . . . unless by that you mean people such as Gregory Potemkin, Michael Speransky, Constantine Pobedonostsev -- people who showed one or both of those traits in abundance but affected the flow of Russian history in ways both admirable and disturbing.
As I've argued in the past...if you elevate the rim from ten to a hundred feet, which metaphorically is what happened to Nicholas, it doesn't really matter if it's me or Michael Jordan with the basketball. Neither of us are going to be able to put the ball in the hole.
You and Jordan might be able to sink the basket with a ladder. Liberalization of Russia, giving more people a stake in outcomes, and bringing more people into the tent of government and thereby diffusing stress and blame on one individual was a ladder that Nicholas sought every excuse not to bring up to the basket, beginning with his "senseless dreams" speech, running through his strategy post-1906, and his failure to support his two finest prime ministers adequately. Yes, the basket was very high for Nicholas. But it was his choice to tackle it without a ladder. He did not have the vision to rethink the rules.
Ask yourself this question...
Who would have fared better...
1) Catherine II, Peter I, Ivan IV, or Alexander I as Tsar during NII's reign?
2) Nicholas II as Tsar during Catherine II, Peter I, Ivan IV, or Alexander I reign?
I have asked myself these questions and posted about them in earlier discussions here.
Answers to Question 1:
Peter I and Catherine II would have had a fighting chance in Nicholas' era. They had the determination of purpose combined with the flexibility of viewpoint and method to adjust to new conditions and to navigate personal dangers. Peter, who barely made it through the murderous childhood coup against his mother's family, later survived by his own cleverness and ruthlessness in dealing with the revolt of the Streltsy, his half-sister Sophia's grab for power, and his entrapment at Pruth to turn Russia westward against every strain of Russian society, from the nobility downward. Catherine, on the brink of being set aside or even dispatched by her husband, adroitly built a coalition of Church, nobility, and army that not only got her husband out of the way but stuck with her as she bypassed her son's right to rule. Traits such as these are not situation specific. They come into play in any circumstances an individual with them confronts.
Ivan IV and Alexander I would have been on very thin ice if confronted with Nicholas' challenges.
But there is another ruler you left off the list and who, I think, would have had the best chance of all: Ivan III, the only other Russian ruler to be named "the Great".
Answers to Question 2:
Nicholas would not have been able to elevate himself to the throne as Catherine did. He did not have the political talent to assemble the coalition required and to keep it under control once he was in the saddle.
Had Nicholas ruled at the time Peter ascended the throne -- and had there been no minority regency and Sophia in the mix -- Nicholas might well have passed as a credible, even a likeable, tsar. But Russia would have continued on its east-facing isolationist path and not emerged as a global power. But with Sophia in the mix, Nicholas would have been overthrown and dispatched in some irreversible way.
Had Nicholas ruled in Ivan IV's time, again he might have ruled credibly and been popular by the standards of the day. However, Ivan IV expanded Russian lands at the most rapid rate of any ruler in Russian history. Russia was positioned for the more westward and southward expansions that came with Peter and Catherine because of the expansions and consolidations under Ivan. I don't see Nicholas as being able to set up that opportunity for them. He would have spent too much time at home or in church.
Had Nicholas ruled in Alexander I's time, he might have done well enough. Liberalism was taking a hold in small pockets of Russian society, but it was decades away from becoming a deadly force capable of unsettling government. And Nicholas would have been perfectly suited for the non-strategy of letting Napoleon get to Moscow and then relying on Providence to take care of things. (While not a big fan of some of Tolstoy's views of history, I do agree with him that the loss of Napoleon's army came about not by a brilliant, unconventional military strategy on the Russian side, but by the serendipitous absence of a strategy.)
The more interesting question to me is whether Nicholas would have survived the Decembrist revolt at the outset of Nicholas I's reign. I think of Nicholas I's personal courage in riding out onto Senate Square to meet a group of
armed military rebels and contrast it with Nicholas II's hiding out in Tsarskoye Selo to avoid the
unarmed civilian marchers on Bloody Sunday (against his mother's and sister Olga's advice), and I do not see a man of the mettle to deal with personal danger.
In short, to me Nicholas was the kind of tsar who would have made it through some relatively stable passes in Russia history, or even through dangerous times when passivity happened to be the answer (as it was with Napoleon).
But there would have been no seizure of the opportunities of which Ivan III, Ivan IV, Peter I, and Catherine II availed themselves to make Russia first a regional and then a world power.