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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #210 on: March 09, 2009, 02:48:48 PM »

May I ask why you are specifically interested in Ms Jackson?

Thomas, I was reading the paragraph about Margaret Jackson in the Emily Loch book when there was a post about the relationship between the Empress and her court on a different thread.

I wondered why would coming from a small German Court be seen as a social disadvantage? Princess Alix was able to enjoy dancing and games and also ‘lively conversation.’ Therefore she could have adapted to the Russian Court and perhaps tolerated a different style of behaviour to what she was used to.

Her Governess was a serious minded person and the theory that Miss Jackson’s influence affected Alix’s view of the world seemed reasonable to me.   

I wondered if this had been discussed previously.


The replies from both you and Helen were very interesting to me, as I know little of her Alix’s friends and mentors.

Miss Jackson was a devout protestant who had left a previous post because her employer had become a Roman Catholic.  She also may have had some influence on the development of Alix’s religious beliefs.

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #211 on: March 09, 2009, 02:56:38 PM »
Apparently Queen Victoria herself eventually came to think that Miss Jackson was not a fit person to be with Alix.

That is interesting! Do we have any more information about this?

Did Miss Jackson accompany Alix to Russia? When did she die?

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #212 on: March 09, 2009, 04:21:33 PM »
The only source of information I have is the Emily Loch book.

I myself would like to know what brought Queen Victoria to this conclusion.

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #213 on: March 09, 2009, 04:51:38 PM »
Certainly Dr. Sell - as a pope - had more influence due to his teaching the confirmation lessons. But I think the deep dependance and belief was due to Gretchen Fabrice who as a close friend practically never left the princess's side and shared her concerns in those very important teenage years.
Her parents had not been that religious neither had her brother. Except from Princess Karl there was nobody in the family with such an attitude.
The serious religious crisis Grand Duchess Alice went through, shows to me that she was a religious person. Ella was a religious person, and the role of religion in Ernst Ludwig's life was important enough for him to have a private chapel built in the park of Schloss Wolfsgarten. 

I didn't say that those persons were NOT religious at all. The Grand Duchess came to struggle with her belief in a much more intellectual way rather than being a bigot (read Strauss's book). Elisaveta Feodorovna was definitely religious - but she left Germany and in that way a constant influence on her sister when the latter was not even 12 years old and when she was still far from converting and becoming a genuine orthodox christian. The chapel at Wolfsgarten you mention was errected in order to separate the Grand Ducal House from a quarrel between the clergies of Langen and Egelsbach. Ernst Ludwig had, being the head of his state, of course the duty to show a ceratin religious input. I don't think he took it too serious - judging from his own words (my personal impression).

I wonder whether you aren't crediting Gretchen with too much influence. Alix commented on sermons  and going to Church with her father or Miss Jackson even before Gretchen came into her life. Gretchen came when Alix was already 16 years old, that is, at an age when most people have formed views on religion, have developed an inclination towards religiosity - or a disinclination for religion. Alix' religiousness did not 'fade' once she was no longer influenced by Gretchen. This suggests to me that Alix' religiousness was something she had already in her. Gretchen and Dr Sell may have intensified some views and inclinations she already had and Dr Sell, as a theologian, most certainly could expand her knowledge, but I think it rather implausible that Gretchen instiled in Alix a "deep dependance and belief" that wasn't there yet. Most people do not become religious simply because a friend is a religious person; they don't start to 'depend on' religion due to influences of a friend/staff member.

I did not say that Margarethe von Fabrice was the first one to awake religiosity within the princess - I merely said that she deepened her belief and it seems that she was the paragon for the bigot in Alexandra; no other person - apart from her paternal grandmother who died when Alexandra was still a child - was as much into religion as to be a paragon her. We know that even in her sparetime she would read religious books. I do not believe that a person at 16 has developed religious views to such a degree that they are unchangeable - one should always and at any age be able to change ones mind. And what changes us more than meeting other persons?
Whom you - by the way - describe as a mere "staffmember" was much more to the Empress. I think she hardly would have a more loving and truer friend than Gretchen Fabrice.

As regards the questions Alix is said to have asked Father Yanishev, I think the type of questions makes it quite unlikely that this kind of thinking came from Gretchen.

At least they discussed those questions - Gretchens mentiones how deeply the issue agitated both of them. One of Gretchen's grand-daughters being a close friend of mine I have discussed that topic with her - she was the one getting to read and transcribe the Livadia letters at the RAs. Judging from her daughter's private memoirs nobody can deny that influence of Gretchen's. And to me this is an absolutely credible source; first-hand source.

Apart from the remarks from Gretchen to QV and from Toni Becker about Gretchen's influence, what specific details do you have on Gretchen's  religious views and what evidence do you have of her influence on Alix' religious views?


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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #214 on: March 09, 2009, 07:44:40 PM »
Her parents had not been that religious neither had her brother. Except from Princess Karl there was nobody in the family with such an attitude.
I didn't say that those persons were NOT religious at all. The Grand Duchess came to struggle with her belief in a much more intellectual way rather than being a bigot (read Strauss's book). Elisaveta Feodorovna was definitely religious - but she left Germany and in that way a constant influence on her sister when the latter was not even 12 years old and when she was still far from converting and becoming a genuine orthodox christian. The chapel at Wolfsgarten you mention was errected in order to separate the Grand Ducal House from a quarrel between the clergies of Langen and Egelsbach. Ernst Ludwig had, being the head of his state, of course the duty to show a ceratin religious input. I don't think he took it too serious - judging from his own words (my personal impression).
You're absolutely right, you did not say they were not religious at all. :) I think, however, that the fact that GD Alice went through a serious religious crisis at all - even when it was in an 'intellectual' way - shows that religion did play an important part in her life. The letters she wrote to her mother include several lines to support this; e.g. in 1862 she commented on the importance of God/religion in her everyday life as follows: "Trust in God ! ever and constantly. In my life I feel that to be my stay and my strength, and the feeling increases as the days go on." And in 1866, under more difficult circumstances: "These dangerous times make one very serious and anxious ; the comfort of faith and trust in God, who does all well and for the best, is the only support." She does not strike me as someone who was "not that religious". (Just my opinion)

Ella indeed left Darmstadt when Alix was still young. She may not have had much influence on Alix in this field, but I think Ella's religiosity shows that Alix was certainly not the only one in the family who was religious and that Alix' religiosity wasn't necessarily the result of Gretchen's influence.

The chapel in the park of Schloss Wolfsgarten was indeed built only in later years, a quarrel between clergies being the immediate reason. Yes, Ernst Ludwig's position required that he showed a certain interest in religion. Yet if he was not that religious, he could easily have gone to church less frequently, when and where it suited him, in Darmstadt or in a village near Schloss Wolfsgarten - didn't Moerfelden have a church? He didn't have to built a private chapel in the park of Wolfsgarten Castle. Yet he did built a chapel in the park. He also had ministers from all over Hesse come to preach every other Sunday. Also, his works Bonifacius and Ostern had clear religious themes. He may not have read as many books on religion as Alix did, but he does not strike me as someone who did not take religion too serious.

But I think the deep dependance and belief was due to Gretchen Fabrice
I did not say that Margarethe von Fabrice was the first one to awake religiosity within the princess - I merely said that she deepened her belief and it seems that she was the paragon for the bigot in Alexandra; no other person - apart from her paternal grandmother who died when Alexandra was still a child - was as much into religion as to be a paragon her. We know that even in her sparetime she would read religious books. I do not believe that a person at 16 has developed religious views to such a degree that they are unchangeable - one should always and at any age be able to change ones mind. And what changes us more than meeting other persons?
Whom you - by the way - describe as a mere "staffmember" was much more to the Empress. I think she hardly would have a more loving and truer friend than Gretchen Fabrice.
I'm sorry, Thomas, but you stated that you thought that Alix's  "deep dependence and belief was due to Gretchen", suggesting that Gretchen's influence went much further than that she merely "deepened her [Alix's] belief". I wrote that Gretchen came into her life when she was at an age "when most people have formed views on religion, have developed an inclination towards religiosity - or a disinclination for religion".  I never said anything about her views being unchangeable at that age.  Of course Alix's beliefs were not unchangeable when she was 16 - in fact, they did change over the years - but that wasn't the point. The point I tried to make was that Alix' religiosity was something she probably had already in her before she met Gretchen, meaning that Gretchen "may have intensified some views and inclinations", but that Alix' religiosity was not "due to Gretchen", which was exactly what you apparently had meant to say. For the record: I did not refer to Gretchen as "a mere staffmember", but as "a friend/staff member". 

At least they discussed those questions - Gretchens mentiones how deeply the issue agitated both of them. One of Gretchen's grand-daughters being a close friend of mine I have discussed that topic with her - she was the one getting to read and transcribe the Livadia letters at the RAs. Judging from her daughter's private memoirs nobody can deny that influence of Gretchen's. And to me this is an absolutely credible source; first-hand source.
Yes, they discussed the issue of a possible conversion, as one might expect friends to do - I'm not questioning that. I rather doubt that it was Gretchen who made Alix ask Father Yanishev those "questions on abstruse points of theology which he had never heard even from [Orthodox] theologians".
« Last Edit: March 09, 2009, 07:50:26 PM by Helen »
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #215 on: March 09, 2009, 11:43:14 PM »
Did Miss Jackson accompany Alix to Russia? When did she die?
Miss Jackson died on 28 january 1918. She did not accompany Alix to Russia, but Gretchen von Fabrice did; I think Gretchen returned to Germany shortly after the wedding of Nicholas and Alexandra.
« Last Edit: March 09, 2009, 11:45:29 PM by Helen »
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #216 on: March 10, 2009, 12:04:48 AM »
The only source of information I have is the Emily Loch book.
I myself would like to know what brought Queen Victoria to this conclusion.
Rosamund, In a letter dated 2 March 1887, Qeen Victoria wrote the following to her granddaughter Victoria:
"... And I hope to live to see one of darling Mama's girls here. But when Irène & perhaps you for a time too - are gone she must not be left to Miss Jackson alone, with her bad health, hard ways & crabbed, bad temper. It wld ruin Alicky. Some one must be found for her, younger, softer, brighter, else her life all alone will be utterly miserable. ..."
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #217 on: March 10, 2009, 04:10:38 PM »
Thank you for quoting this letter.  I wonder if Queen Victoria was speaking from personal experience, or had others relayed this information to her.

I assume that Margaret Jackson had an easier character when she first became Alix’s Governess.  If not it was unlikely that she would have been chosen for that role.

Do you know if she had worked with the older Hesse girls as well?

Was a different person found to replace Miss Jackson?

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #218 on: March 11, 2009, 04:00:47 AM »
I think Miss Jackson went to Darmstadt after the conversion of Lady Maud Herbert, but I don't know exactly when she started in her job in Hesse. Miss Jackson was 'succeeded' in the summer of 1888 by Margarethe von Fabrice, who wasn't a governess, but a lady-in-waiting/lady-companion.
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #219 on: March 12, 2009, 11:08:33 AM »
I have found that Margaret Jackson was well established in the family by 1873 as she looked after the children, with Mrs Orchard, when Princess Alice went to Italy.

According to Christopher Warwick: "Miss Jackson was everything a good, , intelligent and God-fearing protestant governess should be.”  His portrayal of the woman is completely different to that given by Queen Victoria's letter.  “Miss Jackson instilled in her charges lifelong values of respect, moral integrity, honesty and responsibility.” She shared these values with Princess Alice. She disliked gossip, both good and bad, as did Princess Alice.  She was also forward thinking in her ideas about girl's education.  Margaret Jackson's qualities make her an ideal teacher for the daughters of the Princess.

The only negative note is from Carolly Erickson who uses the word irascible as a description, but then adds that she is: "liberal and cultivated."

This irascibility must be the bad temper that the Queen refers to.


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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #220 on: March 12, 2009, 04:07:35 PM »
Alix wrote warm letters to Miss Jackson in later years and visited her in England, so perhaps Miss Jackson's temper wasn't so bad after all. ;D


Christopher Warwick's source may have been Sophie Buxhoeveden. She wrote the following about Miss Jackson:
"Miss Margaret Hardcastle Jackson, "Madgie" as the Princess Alix affectionately called her later, was a broadminded, cultivated woman, who soon gained a strong influence over her pupils, particularly the eldest. She had impressed the Grand Duchess Alice by her advanced ideas on feminine education. She tried not only to impart knowledge to her pupils, but to form their moral characters and widen their views on life. A keen politician, she was always deeply interested in all important political and social questions of the day. Young as they were, Miss Jackson discussed all matters with the children, awakening their interest in intellectual questions. Gossip of any kind was not allowed by her. The Princesses were trained to talk on abstract subjects. It was unfortunate that Miss Jackson felt too old and tired, and had to retire before having quite finished the Princess Alix's  education, when her youngest charge was only fifteen, as she would certainly have been able to accustom her to break through her reserve and acquire a simpler and easier outlook on life." [Ref: Sophie Buxhoeveden, The Life and Tragedy of Alexandra Feodorovna, pp. 14-5]



Yesterday I got a copy of a short biography of Grand Duke Ludwig IV of Hesse from the 1890s. It was said that he too did not allow gossip of any kind. And then Alix found herself at the court in St Petersburg, where gossip flourished.  :(
« Last Edit: March 12, 2009, 04:11:21 PM by Helen »
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #221 on: March 12, 2009, 04:12:11 PM »
Where are these letters you talk about?

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #222 on: March 12, 2009, 04:29:26 PM »
I found excerpts in Sophie Buxhoeveden's book, but I don't know where the actual letters are now.
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #223 on: March 13, 2009, 11:58:48 AM »
There is a thread showing a postcard the Empress wrote to "dear old Jack" - I presume this is Ms Jackson but others meant it could not possibly be her.

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Re: Young Alix - Before her Marriage
« Reply #224 on: March 13, 2009, 12:36:59 PM »
Ah, that thread! (http://forum.alexanderpalace.org/index.php?topic=7092.0) :) I think the question remained unresolved.

Have you ever seen examples of letters from Alix to Miss Jackson in which she addressed Miss Jackson as 'Jack', instead of the usual 'Miss Jackson' / 'Madge' / 'Madgie'?
"The Correspondence of the Empress Alexandra of Russia with Ernst Ludwig and Eleonore, Grand Duke and Duchess of Hesse. 1878-1916"
"Grand Duke Ernst Ludwig and Princess Alix of Hesse and by Rhine in Italy - 1893"
"Ludwig IV, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine - Gebhard Zernin's Festschrift"