I was jabbed! (it's on this thread for all to see)
I'm not one to turn the other cheek.
So, I fire back. The jabb-er is shocked! And outraged! How dare I jab!? I am told to "take it to PM"
i.e.: "Don't you know it is only I who may insult YOU publicly?"
Can you see what is wrong with this?
I deserve to defend myself as much as anyone else here.
Best advice, which you have alluded to already: If someone disagrees, either AGREE to disagree, or IGNORE. I have suggested this approach on numerous occasion. To no avail.
THIS is the root of the problem on BOTH sides. I have been put into an unfair and untenable position by ALL of you. I am supposed to take sides now. Well guess what. I won't.
Why? Because none of you will just STOP. You all take things too personally, get too worked up and jab/poke/ridicule etc etc etc ad nauseum back to fuel the flames.
I asked for it to stop last night. Woke up this morning, to long private messgaes/emails etc about this very thread. and I come back to 2 more pages of this crap YET AGAIN.
Helen A, Penny you BOTH make valuable contributions to the thread as do many many others. I won't choose anybody over anybody else. ever.
Lincoln said it best: It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak up and remove all doubts.
LET ME BE CRYSTAL CLEAR: THE PERSONAL CRAP STOPS HERE AND NOW ONCE AND FOR ALL.
WHY must I be forced over and over again to say this to grown up, educated adults? EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU should be ashamed that the genuine children on this forum are acting with far more civility than I see here.
If you don't like the other opinion, fine, disagree, BUT STOP MAKING YOUR DISAGREEMENT PERSONAL.
PERIOD.
an EXTREMELY angry
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