I know but it still doesn't make AA any more believable to me. Like Lanie said, she got things wrong and Lili said oh well she's traumatized. I think she wanted to believe it so much she did but it wasn't real.
Speaking of 2 best friends, I find it oddly suspicious Anna V. was never asked to meet AA. My suspicions are that AV was THE closest to the family, even going on cruises and outings with them, and a definite NO from AV would have hurt AA's case so they avoided her. It would have been interesting to see her reaction.