At that time Grand Duke Sergey Alexandrovich, Ell`s husband, was the Governor of Moscow so Alix and Niki felt somewhat obliged to attend the ball given by Sergey and Ella. Although some people tried to dissuade the Imperial couple fom going to this ball, mAlix, in all probability,wnted to support her sister and her husband. She was misunderstood so it was rumoured that the tzar with his German wife were dancing merily and rejoicing over the grief of the Russian people. Bad start, indeed