IMO, Tatiana was as loving and caring as all of OTMAA. However, thought they all were close and signed themselves as one, they each had very different personalities. Tatiana was no different. She did however, always want to please and emulate her mother. So her "Governer" persona was just as much to please Alix as it did to appeal to her own sense of responsibility, structure and order. This was also a sign of how much she cared for others. She was always concerned for her parents and siblings, especially Alexei who received many letters from Tatiana when he was at the front with NII. As one of the two oldest, Tatiana and Olga as well were old enough to realize how much danger they were all in, especially when the family was seperated from Tobolsk. Being of a "take charge" character, like her mother she merely filled in to help the younger ones acclimate, and sensitive Olga was only clearly happy to let her take on the role. There are many letters to Alix as well. The letters are in English and are addressed to Alix to correct the mistakes. Seemingly, Tatiana wanted to be like her mother in all ways.