Well that theory is valid for the first two years of Nicholas' rule but considerient he was stilll making the same mistakes after 20 years of rule, if he hadn't taken responsible for his mistakes at that point then he was delusional and to hoard absolute power when he was making massive policy errors was like dragging down both his dynasty and his country. To hoard power after being given the option of ceding some power to a Duma means that he had no excuses and when that absoolute power led to the destruction of the Russian navy in 1905 and to the loss of millions of lives in the first world war, you can blame whoever you want but in the end, the buck stops with Nicholas and it was a blood stained buck.
Most people believe Nicholas II was weak and a failure, and because of these weakness and failures, Russians, including his own family, betrayed him.
At this time, we are discussing Nicholas II's father, how Alex. III, who knowingly and/or unknowingly betrayed Nicholas II.
A subject not touched upon was Alex. III's fear of assasisnation, which means, he was aware that he could indeed be blown to bites like his father at any time and any place. Therefore, he knew that at his death, his son Nicholas would suddenly become Tsar and Emp.. And, even with this thought in Alex. III's head, he did not prepare Nicholas II to be Tsar and Emp.
To give an example how far Alex. III's fear had reached, on page 130 of Charles Lowe's ALEXANDER III OF RUSSIA we're told the following:
>>June 1894 ...General Tcherevin, who, as chief of the political police, had been repeatedly aimed at by the foes of an uncompromising despotism, was appointed General-in-Waiting, a special office revived on this occasion... [for]...the purpose of guarding the personal safety of his Majesty. In constant attendance on the Tsar, he was practically invested with dictatorial powers in any town which his Majesty might be visiting or passing through. Not only could he change at will the head police-masters, but, if he chose, he could even interfere in the administrations of the Government departments.<<
>>...even when Alexander III was laying on his bed of death, he continued to be the object of the bitterest opposition...<< The revolutionaries, one in particular with his body strapped with a bomb, revolver and dagger, declared:
>>Let his son, the Tsarvich, as well as his ambitious rivals, the grand Dukes Vladimir and Michael -- who [we] re ready to assassinate, in accordance, with the traditions of the Romanoff family to get possession of a bloody heritage-- let them through understand that every hour, and every step, they will find themselves fact to fact with the inflexible will of the the Revolutionaries.<<
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