Only when I had read several books, on the topic, the true story began to emerge, living in a world, where the love these two men shared for each other, where considered inappropriate and more than that a severe sickness in this Victorian era, Ludwig being of such a sensitive character, the pressure of the envious servants, courtiers and nobles, must have been very painful to him and in the end his nervous constitution finally jolted his love for Paul, and as devastating it must have felt for him, he himself where never strong enough or dared this forbidden path, and listening to all the different rumours, he now proceeded to close the affair, by sending a letter not to Paul but to his cousin the Empress Elisabeth of Austria “Friedrich is out of favour so I had to remove him; a better one is now in his place”. Paul being of a somewhat stronger constitution, through himself into the love affair with the eager of his youth, unfortunately for him only his love for his King was everlasting, and when he heard from his family, that Ludwig had dismissed him, he fell apart right there and then.......Yes it is a very sad story.
Byron.