Here are some excerpts I'd put on another, long-dormant thread:
Subject: Grand Duke Mikhail to Mme. Wulfert, 24 September 1908
The Grand Duke is writing from Norway. This letter was probably intended to be read by Natasha's husband-- hence the innocuous subject matter.
Yesterday I went to a picture exhibition-- I've never
seen anything worse, dreadful, the pictures must all
have been painted by madmen. I haven't had a card from you for a long time. I'm looking foward to the latest
photographs, send me the ones that you don't want to
keep, the best must go in your photo album. Neither
here nor in Denmark are there any wildflowers in the
fields, while in Gatchina I'm sure there are still
plenty.
Subject: Grand Duke Mikhail to Natasha, 8 October 1909
Please, darling Natasha, never feel embarassed about
telling me if you ever need anything. But knowing how
hard it is for your to ask me, I'll try to make sure you never have to remind me of it and I'll anticipate these things myself and next week when I come to Moscow I'll have sufficient with me and I promise that never again will it happen the way it did last time when you, my darling, were so upset. If you could know how ashamed I was to find that I had not enough with me to give to you... But still, my darling, you shouldn't be so upset, because firstly you should look at these things calmly and secondly, all I do is for you and not for myself.
Subject: Nicholas II to Maria Fyodorovna Burg Friedberg, 4th October, 1910.
We must have been thinking about the same thing at the same time. Just about a week ago I wrote to Misha in the vein you suggest. Having pointed out to him how
difficult and often impossible it was under present
conditions to keep one's incognito, I went on to beg
him not to travel in the same train with her, saying
at the same time that this was not an order, but was
given in the spirit of friendly adivce. I ended my
letter by saying I was sure that, if she loved him as
much as he thought she did, she would not want to harm him in any way. I was as gentle as I could be and got a very grateful telegram in reply.
Subject: Maria Fyodorovna to Nicholas II, 4 November 1912
Now I must tell you about another *terrible blow!* I have just got a letter from Misha in which he announces his marriage! It is unbelievable-- I can hardly understand *what* I am writing-- it is so appalling in every way that it *nearly kills* me! I beg only this one thing of you: that it be kept *absolutely secret* to avoid *another scandal!* There have been secret marriages in the past which one *pretended to know nothing about.* I think this is the only way out-- otherwise I won't be able to show my face *anywhere* for the *shame and disgrace of it all!* May God forgive him-- I can only pity him. But what sorrow it brings, and how difficult it is to bear up under such blows!