I think your website is great Holly, but I'm agreeing with Jehan.
I think that Anastasia is great, but I wouldn't really say that she's the one who's going to live on in everyone's memories the most. Just because she was different than her other sisters doesn't really make her the greatest and had more courage than the others. Everyone relates differently to the sisters, afterall. Tatiana may be strong in some minds, while Olga or Maria may be a big force with others, no?
You don't think Anastasia has been the one that lives on in everyone's memories the most? She already has! Do you see Olga cartoons? Tatiana merchandise? A play about Maria? No, you don't. Until people really read into the family, only then do they really know something about OTM. And Anastasia's popularity isn't just because of Anna Anderson or the 'survival' myths.
Certainly, those do help at first but when people learn about Anastasia's personality and how different she was and how much she stood out in her family, that's when they really remember her as a human being. A heroic tale is nothing without a character to identify it with and keep us engrossed in it. If Anastasia were a girl with no personality and moped around all the time, I doubt anyone would be so intrigued with her story and feel the need to learn more. The fact is that she
was different from her sisters. It doesn't make her the 'greatest' of course but it does make her more appealing to most. One only has to read anecdotes and memoirs to understand what I'm trying to say.
"My favorite god-daughter she was indeed! I liked her fearlessness. She never whimpered or cried, even when hurt. She was a fearful tomboy." - Olga A.
"She was still the obsinate, naughty and irrepressibly cheerful Anastasia' and in the days of exile her gay and boisterous temperament proved of immeasurable value to the rest of her family." - G. Botkin
"For all her weaknesses you were bound to love this child, because you could not escape from her irresistible charm, made up of freshness, enjoyment of life, ingenuousness and simplicity." - Gilliard
"Someone in speaking to me of the four little girls lately said to me, "Olga has grace, wit, and good looks; Tatiana is a regular beauty; Marie is so sweet-natured, good and obliging, no one could help loving her; but little Anastasie has personal charm beyond any child I ever saw." - M. Eager