I had posted this on the VMH thread in the Hesse section a long time ago:
Compiled this information of Edwina's pre-marriage life. It's a rather pathetic tale of parental disinterest and nomadic life, the only stability provided by her grandfather.
Part I
Sir Ernest Cassel’s (a close friend of Edward VII) daughter Maudie married Wilfrid Ashley. Their first child was Edwina followed 5 years later by a 2nd daughter. During this 2nd pregnancy, in Feb 1906, Maudie went with her aunt to Biarritz. Maudie's pregnancy was not going well & Sir William Broadbent, the former doctor to Queen Victoria, recommended that she leave England for a warmer climate. As Wilfrid, was spending most of his time in London, it was decided that Edwina should go to Brighton with her nurse. Sir Ernst soon went to check on his daughter and decided her health had improved to return to England. Maudie took up residence at a friend’s home, Stanmore, and was delivered of a 2nd daughter on 22 July 1906. She was called Ruth Mary Clarice but was known as Mary (and later she decided to be called Maria). Her birth was a difficult one and an incubator needed to be rushed from London.Edwina was delighted to have a sister and with the additional benefit of more contact with her mother as she recovered. They had a month together before Edwina was sent to visit relatives in Ireland while her father was off in Scotland. This shuffling became a bit of a pattern as Edwina was taken from one place to another. There wasn’t much to do with a young child in London and thus her parents didn’t choose to have her at their residence on Bruton St. She was therefore taken to Mrs Bisch (the owner of Stanmore) and her aunt, Mrs Cassel at The Warren House. Edwina had also had 2 cousins almost the same age as herself, Lady Dorothy and Lady Mary Ashley-Cooper, and she would often be taken there to play. Another place where she would be taken was Wherewell Priory (12 miles from Broadlands) where Edwina’s cousin Anna & her husband Col. "Teddy" Jenkins had a daughter, Marjorie, later Countess of Brecknock, who was 18 mos older than Edwina. The 2 played often and when Marjorie couldn’t accompany her parents to overseas stations, they shared governesses. Edwina spent part of each spring and winter at another home, The Grove, but this was more a ‘staging ground’ for her parents to come and go & for Edwina to journey to other relatives and friends and not a real home (though her grandfather was always bringing her pets). Unfortunately Edwina saw even less of her parents as they spent even less time with one another. Wilfrid was increasingly occupied in London with the House of Commons & off shooting or fishing when he wasn’t. Maudie preferred life at Stanmore and the rare times she did accompany him, Edwina & mary were left behind with the servants to act as playmates. In 1907, Edwina’s parents accompanied Sir Ernest on a 4 or 5 month tour of Egypt (and visited the darn on the Nile he had funded). Wilfrid soon went back to England as he didn’t like the heat while Maudie & Sir Ernest continued on to Italy and France. While in Biarritz, Edwina was summoned for the last 2 weeks of her mother’s stay and then accompanied Sir Ernest to his home, Villa Cassel, in Switzerland for a month. Her parents soon summoned her back where her life of shuffling between her parents and being left behind altogether continued—even being left behind when Wilfred’s father died. Upon his death, Wilfrid inherited Broadlands but was forced by financed to let out various other residences. Edwina & Mary took up residence there.