I'm sorry but I think some of you were too hard on Katya. That's the kind of thing that scares newbies away. She only asked an honest question, I don't see it as any more intrusive than anything else here. It's all just speculation anyway. And one of you who criticized her for being too personal simply asking if he had a girlfriend sure didn't mind joking over 'merkins' in another thread. I think that was too personal and out of line, so pot calling the kettle black. Sorry I don't want to fight but that bothered me.