Jehan & Robert,
Point taken but really you're stating the obvious here. Or course prejudice, bigotry and racism are wrong and it's good that we have moved to act on those issues. I think the point that's worth making though is that we didn't need to throw overboard that congenial, polite, dignified qualities of yesteryear in order to achieve our more altruistic goals in society.
What I have found is that we as individuals have become incredibly lazy in our efforts to better ourselves. We instead rest upon our apathy and assign legislation to handle and address the "big picture" stuff. It's a shame really because institutional hatred and disdain is very much alive in our society.
This surface politeness- such as it was- hid a darker and far less tolerant society than we have today.
Of course Jehan I could just as easily say the opposite. Supposed "tolerance" in society simply hides a darker truth that people in public say one thing with their minds that in private they do not believe in their hearts. It's the fear of social repercussions that keep many of us in line...not because we really have changed all that much on a personal level.
And they seem to be more tolerant too-nobody looks twice at an interracial couple, or a gay couple among my kids' circles of friends
.
Again not to sound overly cynical and I too have been impressed by much of what I have heard but it is more than balanced by the things that disappoint me. For just one example of this look at the rampant bullying in schools and the violence and sometimes death that has been caused through it. Typically picking on a kid's sexuality, whether they be "gay" or not, is the easiest kind of assault.
l this "nobless" stuff is an excuse for privilege. Just how did these people come into such possesion of such estates and wealth?
I don't know but lets look at a modern example of this and just talk about the "wealthy" class instead of the nobility. The children of the uber-rich stand to benefit from, not their accomplishments, but those of their parents/ancestors. Is it so wrong for me to want to my children to inherit my fortune? Of course all parents in their right mind want to give their children the best possible protection and best opportunities in life. It just so happens that those with more wealth can afford to do so. Sometimes this carries through several generations...if I became a billionaire one of the things that would probably make me happy is the thought that even my great great great grandchildren probably would never struggle financially.
Confiscated property form the previous owners, Russian or English, rewarded as trophies, with the people on them
.
Or the Native Americans, for example? And of course this was done in a country without an autocracy or nobility. But I ask you also has there been a time in the United States since the Civil War where we have been as polarized as we are right NOW?! The more things change the more they stay the same...
I have no sympathy for those who have had to compromise or accommodate to new circumstances. It levels the field, after all.
That's easy to say on a more general/abstract level. It's fine to expect those who wielded power through inheritance needed to loosen their grip and modify their outlook as our societies have grown more egalitarian. But it's different when looking at the specific individual faced with this. Someone who has been brought up to believe in certain things and uphold those things to have to suddenly and rapidly alter their views...it's a complicated matter to be certain!
I'm also curious about what you are referring to when you talk about leveling the playing field? I'm guessing you mean leveling the field of opportunity and not necessarily evenly dividing up the actual fruits of accomplishment? If so that merits it's own conversation...
Being a "patron"f this or that does not require any effort other than planting a tree or unveiling a plaque. does it ?
Ummm well it could also mean someone who takes a chunk of their hard earned money to support something they believe in that's not necessarily a mainstream endeavor for most. If you're a fan of the "Opera" living on a modest salary, for example (and in a world dominated by film, TV and rock and roll), it's good to know someone with money and influence has your back, in a manner of speaking. It also doesn't hurt having someone famous/popular shill for you. It's not like famous personalities in advertisements & commercials are paying to promote something...in fact it's just the opposite, lol. Maybe I'm missing your broader point here...?
In history, the only Romanovs that really nerit mention are "the Greats" and Alexander I, The rest are foot notes unless one chooses to search out more.
Well I think it's pretty hard to argue that Nicholas II is only an historical footnote, but I can see your point. Than too however being an American I could easily enough argue that as it relates to the history of my country, and certainly my life in particular, that Peter, Catherine and Alexander also could be regarded as mere footnotes, no? That I choose to place more emphasis on them depends on my level of curiosity and fascination. Robert Massie isn't Russian either. N&A (well Alexei to be exact) was his door to their legacies, so to speak. It's the door for many of us on the AP and beyond to learn more about the topics of all things Russian and/or Royalty. Whether they deserve to be that "door" is not really the point anymore than their children not deserving to be murdered along side of them that terrible evening.
Same with all the nobles and minor roayals. Merit deserves mention. The colour of one's underwear does not. IMO.
Well I would also argue that grace and mere physical beauty is meritorious and mentionable, or at least admirable. Not to say that only royalty possessed these qualities but unfortunately we don't have the accounts and pictures from most decent, common folks of that era. I don't think it jeopardizes the high regard most of us have for the more tangible accomplishments of others just to sneak off into our little world and perhaps "hero worship" from time to time. After all we need things to color our world, no? When women in societies of the past (and still today in certain cultures) were often undereducated, didn't have jobs or even prepare food in some instances, what purpose did they serve, technically speaking,
other than for child bearing? And yet any decent man knew perfectly well of all the amazing personal, physical, spiritual qualities they possessed. What other reason would these men have to protect, willingly have laid down their lives for, and practically worshipped their beauties?
In modern society (speaking as an American here at least) we work to provide for ourselves and our families the things that we need, but we all want enough left over to obtain those things that we "want". In my free time I prefer to surround myself with the esthetic quality of things that are pleasing and exciting to the senses. Call it the fruits of labor, or the spoils of victory! :-)